I look forward to reading more. Keep yourself busy and do what you would normally be doing besides sitting around waiting for a guy to call. When out on a date with a Mormon guy or girl, be very decent, courteous, and well-mannered.
IE в the comment about not having a husband to give priesthood blessings, etc. Consider a mix of activities that are inexpensive, and allow you to talk and learn about one another. You can ask her directly, or through sources like other Mormons or reading their books. With the amount of hours they must study and work they are exhausted a lot. Joanna mentioned that our theology is rich with opportunities for second chances. So that's something I can't say is good or bad. What a fascinating response as always. What are the strategies for not taking the absence personally I mentioned above that I'm cognizant of my SO's constraints, but it's definitely hard I have been married to an Interventional Radiologist 30 yrs. Also, they are encouraged to date in groups and not pair off alone, so if your date insists on the same, then agree politely.
Edit - I just read through some of your other comments. If you remain active, Church service is very demanding of our lives в not a Sunday thing. Thanks so much for the links. I fear the idea of growing to resent him. We need to come to a decision pretty soon and I really need some insight. They even refrain from tea and coffee. Look, as a shelia, its no different from a bloke.
In the end, God is a just God. Some exceptions and valid reasons do exist for divorce but self righteousness is not on of them. It hurts me the most when my kids ask me why they haven't see daddy in days. Love Notes for Him.