Hi, I am not a doctor's wife. I think she sounds great but she won't be able to not bring it up. So I understand how it's easy to believe nonsense when you're brainwashed from birth, and how it can be comforting to believe your life is somehow very important in the grand scale of the universe, and how you don't have to be afraid of death because you'll go on to a better place where you'll live happily ever after for eternity. My brother is in medical school, and many of my friends are in their clerkship or already doing their residencies. You know what the official line of the church is, and what bishops and stake presidents are likely to say. Should I marry him. Now he is into his second year, the schedule has improved some and so has his libido: I am married to an intern this is his first year residency, unfortunatley he didn't match so this is only a pre-lim year and now I know in my thoughts we may have to move again, so I get upset when I think why even try and get attached to the community, neighbors, new friends As humans we really need people in our lives especially in a time like this, although we might have to move again and go through the whole match process again there is still hope and there is still a very much needed assist with friends, and family in our lives. First and most importantly, I see major trust issues in your future if you both think the other is brainwashed. They seriously have movies about it.
I married for companionship but now all I do is wait for him to stop working, to come home, to call me back, to have time, which is hardly ever. Nevertheless, I rarely have any trouble with setting some time aside to stay in touch with family, friends, and any woman I might be dating, as well. Good luck to you and your boyfriend. She might not be keeping the Word of Wisdom, living according to the Law of Chastity, or attending church regularly.
RB Ruth Barb May I'm an active Mormon girl. We can talk about everything, but I don't want him to feel as if he is under the microscope. As a docs wife we have to deal with all sorts, and prayer has often been my lifeline. Hi Ladies- My man is an emergency room physician in his mid 50's. Log into your account. He then proceeded to beat the shit out of her for a decade. It takes him about 20 minutes to get ready. You got some good advice from the other posters on how to maintain contact. Please realize I know how the church works, was extremely active and raised good kids.
I'd just like to add that unless you're happy being with her as a full believing Mormon, don't stick around in the hopes that she'll de-convert. What do you do while they are away. He is truly my best friend, my life partner but I can't help, at times, feel extremely lonely and depressed. It's just not worth it to constantly be stressing over this and feeling dissatisfied with the way things are after we've been dating for this long. When those are not around or when the circumstances or the spirit indicate otherwise then prayer is more than enough.